PC Gamer: When you're not doing the main quest, how common is it for you to run into a dragon? Todd Howard: Yeah, we still have that as well. PC Gamer: That's cool – Paralyse was always my favourite thing in Oblivion. So even amongst this basic shout, there's some gameplay: “OK, I've incapacitated these enemies, do I want to shatter the ice? Will that kill them? Or they're tough enough, I'd rather just leave them encased in the ice for as long as possible and deal with something else or move on.” If you hit the ice then it will shatter and hurt them a lot. So you can use the shout and incapacitate people, and then move on and hope that when it shatters, it kills them. When the ice is done, it kind of shatters and that hurts him a lot. And during the time that he's in the ice, he's taking a little bit of cold damage – not enough to kill him. So it visually looks neat because he falls over encased in ice. On the surface, you shout and the wind turns the guy to ice, and what's neat here is it acts as a paralysation for a period of time. Todd Howard: One of my favourites is a shout that turns things to ice. Do you have any favourite items like that? PC Gamer: When I played, I found a pair of gloves that gave me +15 damage to unarmed attacks, and it totally changed the way I played. The marriage one is not a bug, it's a thing – the chicken one is unintentional, a bug. If you ask me next week, I'm sure there'll be something new. I'm trying to think on my feet right now because these are just things from last week. Todd Howard: It's my wedding night, guy walks out of the bedroom! PC Gamer: There's no concept of fidelity. If you make him like her, he then visits her every day, and doesn't care if she's married. I had to call over the designer and say: “This guy! I forgot I did that thing!” and he said “Oh yeah, he's going to visit her every day.” I turned around and as she was standing there, I saw another door open to another bedroom and the other guy walked out! I had owned a house in the city of Whiterun, so I told her “OK we should live there.” I went there, and she hadn't arrived yet, so I decided to wait. If you own a house, your spouse can move in with you, or you can move in with them. When you get married, you can decide where you live. And I forgot that I had done this Radiant quest for this other guy, who it turns out had liked her. You can get married in the game, and I had decided to marry this one woman who was my friend. Todd Howard: Intentional things that are interesting.
Then, go back to your betrothed and tell them you're no longer interested. This can effectively be done by simply not showing up at the temple, at the appointed time. By specifying "before I get married", I think the asker is actually looking for how to call off the wedding. That said, I believe the question here is a bit mis-phrased. You can never leave your spouse for another, or re-marry after being widowed. That means there is no divorce, and death does not end a marriage either.
I think most of the other answers (or comments) here say pretty much the same thing I've read and heard here and in other places: